At the women's self defense class you will be instructed on be proactive instead of reactive when it comes to the safety of your children. Most attackers will not attack a whole family. It has happened but there is safety in numbers and a woman and two kids make more targets that escape and more witnesses if they are caught. If he is trying to get out of the car, stall him by slamming the door on him or picking up an object and smashing his hands, feet or head. At the same time scream your head off. Give a battle cry that will scare the wits out of the guy. Draw as much attention to your self as possible. This sounds like a bad action movie but this guy just kidnapped you. These defeats the woman's will to stand up for herself and she lives a life that is full of fear and depression. The self esteem of that woman is very low because she feels that she have to live up to the expectations of that overbearing husband or boyfriend. This fear keeps her from making new friend or trying new experiences. Women are the logical choice for the criminal activity because most women would succumb to the assaulter's wishes because of smaller stature and less strength. Women were protected in the past by society's rules and a sense of chivalry. Not that chivalry is dead everywhere, a woman has more chance to be assaulted in today's society then they would have twenty years ago. Here after weeks of physical conditioning and indoctrination into the military life style, the women get their first chance at women's self defense classes. These classes will show this new warrior how to take out an attacker in various ways. The woman will learn self defense using her hands, her bayonet, her rifle, and her grenades. Sure, back in the day it was nice to be picked up, but in today's atmosphere of dating, you want to make sure you have a ride home or your date will not abduct you. Another tip is to make sure that you have your first couple of dates at a public place. This will allow you to be seen by other people and not give your date a chance to make an attack.